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…about being a trophy.

Until I met my boyfriend, I had never been unfaithful to my husband. I just find it curious that so many black men want to pursue white women and I can’t help but feel this is all sort of some big game, perhaps some a male genetic instinct to dominate women, but it still seems like a game. I know that when I am out with my boyfriend, I am his trophy. He denies it, but I know it is true. Part of me wants to be his “woman” (me Tarzan, you Jane!) and I get both embarrassed and excited by the looks we get. There have also been more than a few “she must be a hooker or slut” looks (and comments). I am starting to get used to it since I guess that is what comes from interracial dating. My boyfriend just shrugs it off and tells me that’s what discrimination is all about and that is what is it like to be black in America. It is not something I really appreciated before.

Another cover pic.

I was trying to make a cover picture for an erotic story. Never did get a really good feeling about how it should
look.

I am often asked what I wish for most in a relationship, most men think it is sex I crave but women understand that it is “partnership”. Partnership comes in all sorts of forms, some with sex, some without. It is knowing that you have someone you can turn to when you are happy or sad, or just want to rant or chat. That is what I want… the sex is just something fun, something that brings us pleasure but not necessarily closer.