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His name was Jon… or at least I think it was. He was someone I met and lost in the flurry of passion and regret that comes with being on the “rebound” from a lover I really cared about. He was not what I expected, but I was probably just what he wanted… a lonely white woman with a willingness to give her body to his desires. He was not handsome but he was skilled as a lover. He gave me pleasure and I gave him the passion that comes from coupling with a stranger, an abandon that you can only have knowing that there will be no tomorrow for both of you. I left his bed before midnight, my body aching from his love making but my heart sad with the love I was missing.

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I read you story and thought it was very erotic and it is certainly as good, if not better, than some of the other stories posted on the Cavern. In fact most of those have a certain amount of brutality which no woman would write or want. Being dominated by a man only goes so far before it becomes abuse and I don’t care what men may think, women just do not find that erotic or sexy.

…about affairs.

Is it worth it? Hard question to answer. Probably not and you should stick to your fantasy. Sex with another man is exciting and with a black man is an added spice. But is it worth your marriage if things turn out wrong? My advice to any woman looking at an affair right now is to go order a big black dildos, a book on 101 ways to make love, and keep your fantasies going with you hubby first.

I know, I am a contradiction but my husband is a wonderful lover and I do not think that I was looking for sex outside my marriage. Perhaps more romance but not really sex. But I know that that someday I will have to end my affair because my marriage is still important to me.